i think my parents are splitting up & this isnt the first time this has happened but i have a baby brother & i dont want him to grow up w.o a dad but my dad isnt helping anymore hes just acting like hes not apart of this family anymore im not even sure if he wants to be apart of it what can i do?

when i was a baby… my dad left me & my twin brother/mom (he was player/sex addict w/ kids from multiple women). so, i’ve been in your brother’s shoes (that’s why i decided to respond to your question). and i can tell you… letting your dad move on is the best thing that could ever happen to your brother. here’s why…..

your mother will be forced to raise you two alone (for the time being). this will be very challenging for at her at first but it WILL get easier and she WILL become stronger. she will be an example for your little brother. he will model her strength, her compassion, her love, her kindness, her work ethic & her patience. when your brother becomes an adult he will understand how to treat & respect women which means there will be one less asshole/jerk/womanizer/rapist on the streets. can you see now? his loss is your gain. you will also have big shoes to fill after he leaves. but that’s okay b/c you’ll grow a lot from the experience & you’ll learn how to take care of yourself if a man ever divorces you in the future (hopefully that doesn’t happen). just remember, it’s temporary. your mother will meet a new man - a better man, which means you’ll have a real father & your brother will have a real man he can look up to and be proud of & show off to all his friends. hope that helps.
~love rob
p.s. you better run for president some day young lady. you got my vote

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