I'm 21 and I've been with my boyfriend for over a year. I love him more than anything. I did, and do, believe that he's the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. However, he's my first long term relationship (that's lasted over 6 months lol). He's also the only guy I've ever really had sex with. Because of my lack of relationship experience, I get the feeling that I need to date more before settling down. I honestly cannot imagine my life with any other guy, but these feelings won't stop

there is nothing wrong with wanting to experience other souls. nothing wrong with it at all..… there are people who will tell you that your body is sacred & that you should be careful or limit the number of people you invite inside… these are the same people who stuff their ‘sacred bodies’ with pizza, donuts, greasy fries, animal carcasses, gmos & toxic pharmaceuticals to numb the pains of not answering the call of their own souls. they will label you hoe/whore/hooker/tramp/skank/player if you’ve been with, & experienced a lot of people… i happen to disagree with these people. i believe that the most sacred & beautiful thing you can do in this life is to allow your soul to connect & dance with other souls.. to go through this short life having only experienced one soul is like having never traveled outside your own town/city/country. it’s like being that talented small town girl with a big dream… but instead decides to settle for a boring, safe life.. i want you to imagine for second that you are a radio and the people you meet are different stations. every time you meet someone they tune your radio to their station & you get to hear and experience new types of music… their music… their energy… their soul. and so you meet this brazilian guy & tune to his station - you hear this foreign music for the first time… and you dig it b/c it’s got rhythm/spice. you meet this other guy from italy & tune into his station… and you like his music also b/c it’s colorful/lively. and then you meet another guy from canada & his music is dark b/c he has to endure long, cold winters… but u like it, too b/c it’s deep & has a lot of soul…… and it opens up something inside of you… something you didn’t know existed. and beautiful emotions & colors come pouring out of you. this feeling of love permeates your body. and you finally understand the difference between intellectually knowing something & knowing knowing something through direct experience. it’s the difference between dipping your toes in the water & telling everyone you swam in the ocean and actually plunging into the ocean and swimming with the dolphins. experiences are what nourish the soul my dear… hope that helps. ~rob (call me r2)
p.s. if he loves you, he’ll understand… and he wait for you. always.

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