yes, they do. my brother in law is a good example (hi daniel)… back when my sister was in the 7th grade, she started dating this good looking skater boy. she thought he was the one; thought they were gonna be together forever.. when she introduced me to him, i knew right away it wasn’t gonna last (but i didn’t tell her). i knew b/c i used to be a skater and bmx biker (middle/high school) - we’re rebellious risk takers (i have the scars to prove it). i knew if another pretty girl came along that he’d jump at the opportunity… which is what eventually happened. he cheated on her a bunch of times but she forgave him over & over & over & over & over (a shitload of times) b/c he was her first everything (if u know what i mean). they were on & off until the 9th grade. one day, she calls me for advice - pouring everything out & i’m just quietly listening to her & that shit is eating me up alive. you know… hearing your innocent little sister suffer is the hardest thing in the world. i seriously wanted to go down there and grab the little shit and throw him in the trash in front of his friends. and then piss on him. but i didn’t b/c i knew that my sister needed this experience… i knew that it would be one of the most valuable experiences in her life. she just didn’t know it yet. i told her what i’d do if i were in her shoes (which was ditch him) but u know girls don’t listen when they’re in love. but then i added… “you know i can’t make the decision for you, if u want to be with him even though it’s a fucked up relationship then do it. and when you’re finally sick of being put through meat grinder then you’ll be fucking ready to move on. you do whatever u want and i’ll support you no matter what. if u want me to go down there and kick his ass then let me know. okay?” and so she got back with him but this time she started to see how much of an asshole he was. & she decided to break it off. and u know what happens w/ most guys when a girl breaks it off with them, right? they try to get back with them b/c it’s like a game/challenge & most guys want what they can’t have. anyhoooo… at the time she didn’t know it but one of her classmates had a crush on her (my future brother in law, daniel). this kid is very very fucking smart (top of the class), very very very polite, handsome w/ blue eyes and is kind/compassionate (his parents did a fantastic job raising him. thank you daniel’s parents). so he befriends my sister & they start hanging out. she starts to see the difference btwn daniel & the little shithead she used to date. it was like everything daniel did for her was magnified tenfold b/c the other guy never did anything… and she finally understood why she needed to taste a rotten apple before she could truly appreciate a good one. they got married last year & my sister has never been so happy in her life. they both work hard to make each other very happy. i know she appreciates him b/c of what she went through. i know they’ll last forever. so back to your question…. yes, yes, yes, yes i’ve met plenty of men who prefer a kindhearted/intelligent/soulful/wise woman over a ‘looker’. they’re everywhere. i would volunteer or go to meetups. or wear a shirt that says ‘i love books & i cannot lie’ or something like that and then go to a coffeeshop and work/study. u can try dating apps but i don’t have any experience w/ those. but yeah, they’re out there… i know a bunch follow me b/c they message me all the time for life advice. again, put yourself out there & you’ll hook one. i know you will. good luck ~rob
p.s. get that shirt!
pps. one time it took me almost 6 hours to catch a catfish. patience baby. patience
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