So my ld bf just came back for his summer break. When i first saw him I didn't feel the same. He would hug & kiss me and I just felt neutral. After spending the day together, though, I got those butterflies again. Is it normal to feel cold at first?

I do think this is actually a common feeling after being apart for long periods of time. You have to get used to their presence again. A lot of people in LDR’s become so used to being “closed off” to physical affection, that it doesn’t just automatically switch back on when they are there. Don’t worry about it dear, feeling butterflies after spending time together shows how you really feel. :)

- Erika

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